For me this whole year was some sort of roller coaster ride... with so many highest highs and equally even were the lowest low...! But over all, like they say, all is well if it ends well...
If I were to sum up the whole year I would say I did reasonably well professionally...made new good friends who were just my colleagues once, earned respect from colleagues and sub-ordinate staffs, gained admiration of my superiors, and most of all, it was the love and affection of patients which blew me over...!
While my professional life was full of highs...(except for a few lows too!) my personal life was a bumpy ride... with me hurting so many of my near and dear ones...! Though on most of the occasions it was purely unintentional.. but still the fact remains unchanged that I did hurt them and hurt them pretty badly.
Sometimes it so happens that you are so pissed off with yourself that you don't even treat other people well... it's not that you are mad with the person standing next to you or the person you are conversing on phone with...but still you behave rudely...you talk rudely... and they think its them who are at fault...when the fact is its actually your frustration with yourself that coming out...!!
A while back, I read somewhere, "People will forget what you said, people may forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel." this is so true..everyone should remember this...I need to remember this all the time.. for there is no greater cruelty than to make someone feel awful..specially when you are aware of their feelings..
Problems aggravate when you become habitual in taking people for granted...you need to cherish the people who care for you...not take them for granted...as if what they do for you is their duty...! Be wise, and always have this knowledge that if you are cared for then you are certainly very lucky! Stand for them. Take good care of those who care for you..for you can only repent once you have lost them to your arrogance..!
May this New Year brings more happiness and wisdom to all of us..
While my professional life was full of highs...(except for a few lows too!) my personal life was a bumpy ride... with me hurting so many of my near and dear ones...! Though on most of the occasions it was purely unintentional.. but still the fact remains unchanged that I did hurt them and hurt them pretty badly.
Sometimes it so happens that you are so pissed off with yourself that you don't even treat other people well... it's not that you are mad with the person standing next to you or the person you are conversing on phone with...but still you behave rudely...you talk rudely... and they think its them who are at fault...when the fact is its actually your frustration with yourself that coming out...!!
A while back, I read somewhere, "People will forget what you said, people may forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel." this is so true..everyone should remember this...I need to remember this all the time.. for there is no greater cruelty than to make someone feel awful..specially when you are aware of their feelings..
Problems aggravate when you become habitual in taking people for granted...you need to cherish the people who care for you...not take them for granted...as if what they do for you is their duty...! Be wise, and always have this knowledge that if you are cared for then you are certainly very lucky! Stand for them. Take good care of those who care for you..for you can only repent once you have lost them to your arrogance..!
May this New Year brings more happiness and wisdom to all of us..
